November 4, 2008

Sweet Recall

SKIRT Magazine, November 2008

"Your house smells like cookies.”

That’s what the delivery guy says as he drags in my boxes.

For the past year, he has race-walked my pavement in his brown pants and shirt. Today, however, is his last day. He’s going back to school, but first he’s taking a week off to bake cakes.

“Cakes? Really?” I raise my brow.

“Yeah, my mom used to make pound cake and this big monster chocolate cake for our family reunion, but now she’s in a nursing home.”

His mother suffers from dementia, that cruel slight window between a bad memory and Alzheimer’s. Two years ago, she dumped a tablespoon rather than a teaspoon of salt into her prized pound cake. A year later, she misread three cups of milk for eight. Then she couldn’t find the recipes at all.

The delivery guy took over. He recounts digging through a kitchen of clutter, through dog-eared cookbooks missing their spines and magazine clips yellowed and stained. He rescued the recipes....

Read the rest at SKIRT magazine: You must scroll down; on the left, under essays, click on SWEET RECALL. http://www.skirt.com/